Thursday, April 8, 2010

Missing the boys

Thursday, April 8, 2010
Dear Max,
Well, here we are again. We were home for 4 days this time and now you are already off to Salt Lake City. You and Daddy left this afternoon. You picked up Grammie and are almost to Aunt Jali's and Uncle Geary's. I'm flying up tomorrow at noon. I miss you boys so much. It's so crazy to be home without you, daddy and cooper. It's REALLY quiet! The last few day's since being back from St. George have gone by quick once again. Daddy and I both came back on Monday to morning meetings and laundry and re-packing our bags. It's official we have had our bags packed full time since the middle of March. I'm looking forward to seeing everyone tomorrow. I just keep praying that you will all arrive safe and sound. My entire life is in that truck. I keep telling Daddy to drive really safe and GO SLOW! I miss and you and love you Max!

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Home for three days...then off on another Adventure!

Sunday, April 4, 2010
Dear Max,
The week started out on Mommy's birthday. Monday, March 29th, Daddy and I went back to work after our California Vacation. Later that afternoon Aunt Kathy came down to spend three day's of her spring break with us. We were so happy to see her, but you were especially happy to have her visit. You love your Aunt Kathy, and have such a great time with her. She spoils you with lot's of love and attention. Monday night we all went out to dinner at one of Mommy's favorite restaurants. It's a Greek restaurant. Auntie Andrea was able to join us too. We had a fun time and enjoyed spending the night with family. Tuesday Daddy was off of work, so you, Aunt Kathy and Daddy spent the day together. You actually spent the day getting new tires on Daddy's truck, based on the tire explosion we experienced coming home from California. Wednesday Daddy and Mommy were both back to work, so you got to spend the day with Aunt Kathy. It was fun for the two of you. It is also Grammie's birthday today. She's a special Grammie and it's so fun to have a day just to celebrate Grammie. We love her so much. When Mommy got home from work, Aunt Kathy, you and I all drove home to St. George.

Now, you may wonder, why were we leaving for "Easter weekend" so early. Well Max, here it is. A mommy confession. Remember last week, Monday, when Mommy stayed home from work, because she had pink eye. Well, that same day Mommy woke up with a horrible tooth ache. I was devastated. The reason why? I am deathly afraid of the dentist. I had a terrible experience as a child going to the dentist. Max, I even ran away from home one time when I was a young girl cause I was so afraid of going to the dentist. Now, here I am as an adult, having to face my childhood fears. I'll be honest, if I had not woke up with that terrible tooth ache, who knows when I would have actually taken the plunge and called a dentist. By the way...Daddy is in the same boat, just no tooth aches yet. So I looked up a dentist, and made the dreadful call. I cried the entire time I was on the phone with the dentist office, the sweet lady on the other end, was very understanding and asked if I could come in at 1:00 pm. I said yes, and just started sobbing. It was 10:00 am when I made the call and I had 3 hours to not chicken out! I cried the entire drive to the dentist. Grammie, Pappa and Daddy all kept calling giving words of encouragement and I'm sure praying that I wouldn't turn around. Well, I did it. I sat in the chair, palms sweating, tears trickling down my cheeks. They took x-ray's and looked inside my mouth. The dentist was talking with his assistant, talking in code about each and everyone of my teeth. Then he said that we were done and that they would meet me in the conference room to discuss my treatment plan. WHAT? Dentist offices have conference rooms? So, I sat down and they started talking and then pointed to the 2nd page... $18,962.00 WHAT?? That's before insurance... Right? The office lady responses with, your insurance covers $2,000.00 a year. So your balance would be $16,962.00... Oh My! Panic set in. My response, I'll need to talk with my husband about all of this. However, is their anything you can do for the pain I'm in RIGHT NOW! She call's the dentist in and he says, let me give you a prescription for Loratab. Um... I took an 800 ib the other day and it knocked my socks off. I'm not certain that is the right choice for me. The dentists response, it will take the pain away. And I walked out the door. No better off when I walked in. As a matter of a fact, worse off! And I started crying again. I called Daddy, I called Grammie, I called Papa and I called Aunt Andrea. All had some suggestions of talking with other dentists. I did some calling around and not much changed, until Grammie called her dentist back in St. George. They had me send up my x-ray's and my suggested treatment plan. They said that IF they did everything on the treatment plan their cost would be around $8,000.00. 1/2 of what they were quoting me here in Vegas. I couldn't believe it. And then the dentist said, I want to take a look at your teeth in person, but from the x-rays, I really don't think you need all that work done that they are suggesting. So we made an appointment for April 1st. Now, keep in mind this was March 22nd. I still had a week and 3 day's before the appointment, including a business trip, daddy's training and our little mini vacation all in California. And I was still in pain! Well, Dr. Hendrickson (the St. George dentist) called in a prescription for an antibiotic for me and within two days the crazy pain had gone away. And I was able to get through then next week till I got to the dentist office.

So Wednesday night we Aunt Kathy, you and I all drove to St. George, so I could go to the dentist on Thursday morning at 8:00 am. The doctor gave me a pill to take about a half hour before the appointment to relax me and then I put my ipod in an listened to a movie and then he put laughing gas on me. However, we did discover that my body metabolizes Novocaine really fast. So they had to keep giving me Novocaine shots to keep my mouth numb. We are thinking this is were things went wrong as a child. One shot of Novocaine and then the numbness wore off and they were still going to town on my mouth. Not good. Max, I lived through it! I will be honest, their is nothing that can scare a mommy into becoming brave like a dentist bill of $18,962.00. Let's be real, that's a little brother or sister for you! When Dr. Hendrickson was able to look inside my mouth, he said that I didn't need any crowns, and just the two root canals and then two on lays for a couple fillings that were coming loose. Look at that! It wasn't nearly as bad as the other dentist made it out to be!

So we started our Easter vacation with a visit to the dentist office, I will say, that it was much more pleasant than I was expecting. I will also say that the recovery I was not prepared for. It knocked me off my feet for a good two days. The pain was crazy bad, I even went back into the office on Friday just to have them look at them again. By Saturday night I was back to eating solid foods. And by Saturday late night when Daddy got to St. George I was feeling like a million bucks! Grammie and Papa took great care of you while I was laid up. Here are some pictures of how your Easter weekend was.





Reading Books with Grammie


ATV Rides with Grampie


You Love to go on the Vroom Vroom


Your helmet fits you lot's better this spring than it did last Fall, that's for sure!



Such handsome dudes!


Easter Sunday I was feeling so much better. After the morning session of conference, we met up with Aunt Kathy over at Grandma Trenholms to visit with her. We took a few of your plastic eggs to hide around her room, so she could watch you go on a little Easter egg hunt. She just can't believe how big you are getting. You are like a new little boy every time we get to see her.



Kisses from Grandma. Such a lucky boy!

After visiting with Grandma Trenholm we got back to Grammie and Papa's just in time to watch the 2nd session of conference. After conference we had a little Easter Egg hunt and then had our Easter dinner and you opened your Easter Baskets.


You did such a good job with the Easter Egg hunt.
The practice session definitely was a good idea!


Couple Lessons for Mommy:

1st Lesson: Easter Buckets = No Good
Your eggs kept falling out when you would swing the handles.
Next year, we will find you an Easter Basket


Second Lesson
Small Plastic Eggs = Cooper can fit in his mouth
Cooper kept finding the Eggs faster than you could. We would be telling you that their was an egg over there for you to get, and then realize that Cooper already had it.
Next Year, larger plastic eggs.


Find the Egg

Put it in the Basket

Then stop to see what is in the egg's

And Repeat

Find the Egg

Put it in the basket

Open the Egg to eat what's inside
It was a quite a pattern you had down.


Opening your Easter basket








And your favorite gift from the Eater Bunny....
BUBBLES!

Daddy, Papa and you blowing bubbles off the balcony


You decided to take a more comfortable seat for the bubble show.


Lot's of Ooohhs and Aaahhhs


Daddy is a great bubble blower!



It was a great Easter Sunday.

Happy Easter! We love you Max.

Sunday, March 28, 2010

It was a...Business Trip for Mommy, Training for Daddy and a Birthday Celebration all in one!

Sunday, March 28, 2010
Dear Max,
Life has not slowed down and it appears to just be getting busier! By Tuesday I had fully recovered from the Pink eye and on Wednesday I was on a plane to Burbank, CA to meet with some customers for work. It feels like I was just there! While this is a part of my job that is not very fun (being away from my family) it's nice that every once in awhile we have the opportunity to take advantage of these trips and turn them into small getaways! While I was in Burbank on Wednesday and Thursday, Daddy needed to be in Anaheim for a training class on Friday. So we made our plan, Daddy and you drove down to Anaheim on Thursday and I drove from Burbank to Anaheim to meet up. I was again so proud of your Daddy for going on a 5 hour car ride all by himself with you. He planned it just right, so you would leave about the time you typically go down for your morning nap. The one thing that Daddy did not figure was this, he had got you a DVD player for the car. We have been very careful to not let you watch too much TV, so you can only imagine your excitement to watch TV in the CAR! Well, the nap went out the window and instead you found yourself watching Toy Story, Toy Story2 and GForce. Daddy made a stop in Barstow and took you into McDonald's all by himself, fed you lunch, changed your diaper and the two of you were back on the road. Our timing was perfect, I got to the hotel about 20 minutes before the two of you. Just enough time to get checked in and get my bags in the room so I could unload the ridiculous amount of stuff we had packed in Daddy's truck. I just kept thinking... we might need this, throw it in!

Daddy and I had been trying to locate a babysitter in LA. We were hoping to get a night out for the two of us, however, it seemed that it was a busy weekend for all and everyone was leaving town when we were coming. Our plan, if we got a baby sitter was to go eat at our favorite restaurant... Captain Jack's. Well, Daddy decided to call Thursday evening and just ask if they even had highchairs....guess what!?! They have 2! So we figured if they had high chairs, that babies must go their sometimes. So we called back and made a reservation for 2 with a high chair for 7 pm. I was super nervous cause you had not napped much during your drive down, I was convinced that this was the worst decision of our parenting career and certainly going to end up being the most embarrassing. Well, as usual, you proved me wrong! They sat us in the back corner (normally I would have been mad, but in this case I was glad they put "baby in the corner") we still had a window table, so we could watch the sunset over the water. And right behind us was the big aquarium. PERFECT! We had such a wonderful dinner. They made you noodles with butter, which you LOVED! And of course Daddy and I had the crab legs. Oh they are so good!!!


Max and Mommy at Captain Jack's


Max, you actually took this picture of Daddy (with some assistance from Mommy)


Mommy's Dinner!

Friday, March 26, 2010
The next morning Daddy had to go to his training class, so you and I slept in and watched cartoons until the sun started to come out. As soon as the sun came out we headed to the pool. It was beautiful weather and being a Friday, we had the entire pool to ourselves for the majority of the day. It was so fun to swim. It was a nice break for the two of us!


Getting Ready to take a dip!

After we swam for awhile, we went back up to the room we ordered room service for lunch, you took a nap and then we got ready for the day. What a perfect day for the two of us!


Helping Mommy find a place to plug her phone in. You are such a big helper!

When Daddy got back from his class we decided to go over to Downtown Disney to see how you would react to "Disney" the good news is... we can wait at least another 6 months for anything "Disney" you could really care less. Now, Daddy on the other hand loved all the star wars stuff. Especially at the lego store. You will see what he bought "you" later.


Daddy and Max with Darth Vader


You tried on the "Captain Jack" wig...I think short hair is more your style!


Hanging out on Daddy's Shoulders


These are the things that your Daddy loves about having you in our lives. Normally we would have walked right by these boats. Your daddy would have said, "I want to go over and steer the boats." I would have said "That's for kids to do" Daddy would have said "How do you know?" I would have said "Because of the height of the boat steering thing!" But now...Without hesitation Daddy can throw money into the boat steerer thing and you just turned and turned that boat in one big circle! It was awesome!


I was trying to get a picture of your boat... but it just kept going into one circle.


The best was this little girl that kept coming up to you saying "It's my turn now!" What the heck! Tell your cheap parents to put a dollar into your own machine! Leave ours alone!


Family Bliss!
Long Day for Daddy
Tired Mommy
and a little Max who was OVER Disney!

Saturday, March 27, 2010
On Saturday we drove down to long beach and went on a whale watching boat. One thing Mommy didn't seem to catch when Daddy was telling us about this adventure was that the whale watching ride was 2 and 1/2 hours. Really, I don't know what I should have expected, but suddenly I a little panic attack, thinking of being on a boat for 2 and 1/2 hours out at sea. What if you needed something that I DIDN'T pack! But I put those feelings aside, got brave and we got on the boat. Within minutes of being on the boat and heading out to sea I reached into the diaper bag to get the sunscreen. If we were going to be out on the deck of the boat in the middle of the day, we needed to keep you sweet skin protected. Guess what? I forgot it! So we spent the rest of the boat ride down in the depths of the boat inside and protected. Daddy however had a great view and would come and visit us often!

Mommy and Max getting on the boat


Max, you greeted everyone who came on the boat. You were the ambassador of the ship!


Saying good bye to land and hello to the sea


Things were getting a little warm up top...



So this is where we hung out the rest of the time...down below


Daddy's view from up top


Oh and we didn't see any whales, just these sea lions!
It was still fun and a relaxing, rocking ride.

After the whale watching ride, we went to the Aquarium of the Pacific. It is a HUGE aquarium! It was so fun to see your reaction to all the fishes. You especially loved the tanks that you could put your hands into.


Splashing around in the water


Walking from tank to tank
You were appropriately dressed with your shark shirt on.


You loved walking right up to the tanks and seeing all the fish


I think your Mommy and Daddy had this guys brother for dinner the other night


Wow!


Feeling the coral


Daddy and Max outside the aquarium

Sunday, March 28, 2010
Sunday morning we woke up went to the pool for a last minute dip before packing up and heading home. The real excitement came when we were driving on the CA freeway in the carpool lane and Daddy suddenly realized that we had blew a tire! Oh my! We pulled off into the shoulder on the left side of the road, we were so glad that the truck didn't swerve out of control, but were scared about being on the left shoulder. Daddy had to pull so close that he couldn't even open his door and all the car's and trucks just kept rushing by. Daddy and I started calling around to find someone to come out and help us. Being a Sunday, most places were closed. I did talk to one gal that suggested calling the free freeway road side assistance line. So I did. When I called them and they found out that we were in the left shoulder, She immediately told me to hang up and call 911. WHAT? Call 911! WHY? She said that were in danger and we needed help. So I did as I was told, and called 911. As soon as I told them what was going on. They asked if we all had our seat belts on. I told them we did, they said to please keep our seat belts on and stay in the car and they were sending help to us. We waited there and suddenly about 7 minutes later we noticed the road side assistance truck show up, however, he was on the right shoulder. Not sure how he was ever going to make it over to us! That's when we looked behind us and just like that... Not a single car on the freeway! The truck came over to us, told us to slowly move the truck over to the right shoulder. They had shut down the freeway until we could cross over and then they would open it back up! I couldn't believe it. They closed down a CA freeway for our little family. I was so grateful. I quickly took a picture as the car's started coming back down the freeway. It was a site to see all those lanes clear. They fixed our tire right on the spot and within an hour we were back on the road. We were so grateful that we were able to get home safe and sound. Such a fun weekend! Glad to be back safe!


The first car's starting to come down the freeway


Our tire... so sad

Oh and remember that gift I was telling you that your daddy bought for "you" at Disney. A light saber. That's right, he bought "you" a light saber. I think this was the first and last time I have seen you play with the light saber!



Well Max, we are home for 3 day's then off to Utah to see Grammie and Pappa for Easter! Sure is a busy few weeks! We love you!