Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Things I never expected!

Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Dear Max,
Oh Max- where do I even begin. Spending each day with you is a new adventure! I remember hearing about things or seeing moms in the grocery store with their kids doing funny things and thinking.... "'man, they have really strange kids!" Well guess what - WE HAVE ONE TOO! It's YOU! Here are a few of the things that you have been up to!

From previous entries you know that you have a great love for putting all of our stuff outside the dogie door. We have found, remotes, shoes, Tupperware, your toys, Coopers toys. Pretty much anything that can fit out the dogie door - you put it out! So you can imagine our surprise when we came around the corner and saw this!


Yup! It's December and our sweet baby an puppy are outside on the ground!



Like any good parents we thought... let's just teach him to come back in! Maybe you will start letting yourself in and out just like Cooper!


It took some persuasion, if you look closely that is Daddy's cell phone being used as bate.

Then just the other day, I picked up a friend for lunch and she looked into the back of my car and just started laughing! I said "WHAT?" She proceeded to say "You have a MOM car! I love it! I use to always get into your car and it was so clean... no crumbs... no toys... I was so jealous! But now look! There are crackers in the back seat, toys in the trunk, crumbs EVERYWHERE!" And the guilty party is....

Who you?

Then a couple days later, I'm putting the dishes away and look at this! I didn't even know you could climb!!! So I was REALLY surprised! Mommy officially has a little "helper"

How can anyone resist the face of this Little Helper!


You are so proud of yourself!


I am in TROUBLE!

Max, I must say, in the past 3 weeks you have become a changed little man! You are exploring everything and everywhere. I feel like the bigger your world is getting the smaller I'm trying to make it. I would venture to say that we are both going through an adjustment phase. For as long as I can remember I have never had somebody follow me around taking out everything I put away. I could put a shoe away and it would be right where I put it when I came back for it. Whether it was 2 minutes or 20 days later. Now I can't set a shoe in your site or it might never be found! And just when I had cleaned your toy room for the 4th time today, cleaned the kitchen only to find the cabinets emptied two seconds later, I take you to the grocery store and as we are strolling through the store and out of nowhere you point to your eye "I" then to your chest "love" and then you do what.... POINT AT ME! "YOU!" I've been teaching you to do that for the past couple of weeks, and suddenly, without warning, and just when your mommy needed it most, I get an "I Love you" from my son. I love you too Max! EVERYTHING about you! Please tell me that this was sincere and you haven't figured out how to manipulate me already... oh man!

Monday, December 28, 2009

Christmas 2009

Monday, December 28, 2009
Dear Max,
Christmas! Christmas! Christmas! We had such a wonderful time celebrating this special time of year! Frankly it was so nice to have some time together as a family. It seems that we have all been so busy lately that just having 5 day's off to spend together was gift enough. But don't worry, Santa did stop by too! Here is a run down of the festivities....

Wednesday, December 23rd
Daddy and I both worked that day, so after work, Daddy headed home to pack up and I went to pick you up from Jaime's. As I was on my way to get you I got a text from Jaime that said "I hope your not going anywhere right after you pick up Max...He is kinda a mess!" You had spent the day making and decorating cookies for Santa! I will be honest Max, things have been a bit stressful the last couple of weeks, between the ward party, being the end of your mommies quarter at work and I had completely forgotten about making cookies for Santa! I tell ya - it takes a village and I'm so grateful Jaime is in our village! You had even wrote your letter to Santa and she sent us home with a cute goblet for the milk too. PERFECT! We were set for Santa's arrival. We arrived at Grammie and Grampie's about 10:00 that night and we were all exhausted. You and I actually fell asleep in Grammies bed. About 1:00 am I moved down stairs and you stayed with Grammie. I thought I would check on you about 5:30 I crawled back into bed with you and Grammie and that's when I heard it... The same sound that I had heard back when you had the bout with diarrhea. OH NO! I grabbed the wipes and a diaper when I noticed that it was much worse than I thought - it was EVERYWHERE! Poor Grammie thought she would get a good nights sleep snuggling with her sweet Max. Nope. Not this time! We put you in the tub and got you all cleaned up and you spent the rest of the morning watching the sunrise out of Grammies big window while we tried to go back to sleep.

Thursday, December 24, 2009
It's Christmas Eve! Since the morning started kind of early, it took us awhile to get motivated and going in the morning. Grampie got back around 9:00 am and we had breakfast and that's when Grampie decided he had some last minute Christmas shopping to do and Grammie decided the same! So we divided up - Boys and Girls and headed out on a own shopping excursions. For Christmas Eve, Aunt Kathy came over and we had dinner, we then all went over to see Grandma Trenholm. We took our presents and scriptures and so we could have our Christmas Eve program together. First Grandma Trenholm opened her gifts, she was so excited about the robe and slippers you gave her and appreciated the money Daddy and I gave her. We then read the story of the Saviors birth. Grampie read from the bible and I played some music that we had put together. The spirit was so strong and it was so nice to be together, I think Grandma Trenholm was so grateful. And just like Grandma Trenholm likes, we even had a small discussion about the scriptures after. She is so smart and has spent so many hours studying the scriptures, it's always so nice to hear her perspective. We were all so thankful that Grandma had such clarity of her mind while we were there that night. After we left Grandma Trenholm's we decided to drive around and see Christmas lights. Daddy decided he was going to need a drink for the road so we swung into the quickie mart and ran into Teri and Justin with Austin and Kamryn. It was so fun to see them, they had just been out seeing the lights and gave us the inside scoop on a house we could not miss! No sooner do we get back into the car and Auntie Andrea text messaged me and said... their is a house you can not miss... it was the same house! So we headed there. Auntie Andrea was on her way with her mom and dad too - we got their at the same time and WOW! The house was lite up like I have never seen! They decided to follow us to another house that Grammie knew about. Things got a little crazy in the car with two back seat drivers and one out of state driver all thinking they know the best way to get to this house...don't forget Auntie Andrea and her parents are "trying" to follow us. This is about the time that I text Auntie Andrea and say... "save yourselves! stop following us!" They didn't give up and neither did we and we found the house! All the lights were set to music! It was so cool - oh wait, guess what Max - mommies car stereo is broke! We couldn't listen to the music, so we pulled up next to Auntie Andrea's car, they rolled down the windows and turned the music up so we could all hear. We were all laughing so hard (we felt like poor white trash). It's a good thing they follow us - it would have been really sad had we got all the way there and then had no stereo to hear the music. We said our goodbye's and headed home. We decided that we better get you to bed so Santa could come to Grammie and Grampies. We set out your cookies, note and milk for Santa and you headed off to bed. Max, I will tell you it's really fun being parents! When your parents you get to wait up for Santa and make sure he leaves the right things for you. He's a really busy guy, and he's getting kind of old, so it's always good that we double check his order, cause we certainly don't want it to be wrong! Daddy and I had a great time -

Grandma Trenholm opening her gifts


She was so excited to see you and Daddy!


Grandma Trenholm loves you so much!


Aunt Kathy does too! You love to feed everyone and Aunt Kathy was kind enough to let you feed her.


Playing with Grampie


Grammie and Daddy


Yeah for Grandma!


Max, Aunt Kathy, Grandma Trenholm, Mommy and Daddy

Christmas Lights...

Here it is! The house that everyone said not to miss... How could you miss it?


OK Santa... The cookies, milk and note are out... Don't forget to come see us!

Friday, December 25, 2009
It's hear! It's hear! It's finally Christmas morning! We woke up around 8:30 am and had breakfast. Aunt Kathy came over around 9:00 am. After we finished eating we headed down stairs to see what Santa brought. And guess what? He brought you a brand new red convertible! How luck are you?!!? You spent the rest of Christmas morning sitting in your new car opening all your gifts from there. You would open something then put it in your car with you. You had horded all your gifts into your car. Mommy got a pair of diamond earrings from Daddy and a weekend away! Daddy gave Grammie a weekend with you and Cooper! I think your Daddy had that one planned out. Mommy gave Daddy some money for his gun he is saving for. Cooper got some treats he had his eye on. And Grammie and Grampie gave you a tricycle! It is so cool! You can rock on it now - then when you get bigger we can push you on it then when your even bigger you will have your very first tricycle to ride! We spent the rest of the afternoon watching movies and eating. Grammie made a yummy prime rib dinner! And daddy, Grampie and I enjoyed the evening in the hot tub.


Waking up Christmas Morning


Santa found the cookies and milk


Looks like Santa found us!


WOW! A brand new car!


Taking it out for a spin


Didn't take you long to find all the button's


With some assistance from Daddy you are on your way!


That's what it's all about... Look at that smile!


Yup - the horn really works and the radio too!


One happy boy!


Gifts for Cooper too!


He loves these peanut butter cookies. Santa did good


Look - he can hardly wait



Cooper is in heaven!


This is where you spent your entire Christmas morning.


Finally - you got out of the car to explore your NASCAR track


Happy Boys!


The aftermath


Tricycle from Grammie and Grampie


You love it!
Saturday, December 26, 2009
We had another lazy day! It is so nice to not have a million things to do! We stayed close to home - Grammie and I went to a couple of stores to see about some after Christmas sale's. Auntie Julie and Janice came over to visit, you were certain to show them your new car too! All this was all mixed in with more movies and food!

Sunday, December 27, 2009
We went to church with Grammie and Grampie and then came home and relaxed. The Hill family came over Sunday night - it is always so much fun spending time with them. We visited and laughed and you showed them your new car. We were going to go home - but decided that we would stay another night and leave in the morning.

Monday, December 28, 2009
Grampie had a doctors appointment in Vegas, so Grammie and Grampie followed us home to Vegas. Grampie went to his appointment and Grammie came with us to the social security office. Daddy and I went in while you two waited in the car. You have another official document now - your social security card. I was determined to get this done by the end of the year - as last year at tax season it was such a pain not having your social security card and when we set up your savings account, they needed us to bring in your number so they could finish it. It was not as painful as I thought it was going to be - it was relatively quick! After that we went down to mommies work to visit the office. They were all so excited to see you and couldn't believe how much you had grown! It was perfect timing as we were leaving the office Grampie called and was done with his appointment, we met up at Nora's for an Italian lunch. Grampie headed off in the big truck down to California and Grammie stayed the night with us. Daddy and I took advantage of the baby sitting service and went to see the movie the Blind Side. It has been such a fun holiday and I'm sad that it is already time to go back to reality. Luckily it's only for two day's then we are off again for 4 day's for the new year celebration! Max, it was such a new experience sharing the holiday's with you. You made Christmas magical! Can't wait to do it again! Please be good this year so Santa will come! Love you!

Monday, December 21, 2009

13 Months Old and Your First Ward Chrismtas Party

Friday, December 18, 2009

Dear Max,

Today you are 13 months old! I can not believe how fast you are growing. You are doing so many fun things, like waving and saying "bye bye" you also are blowing kisses, which is the cutest thing I think I have EVER seen! You know all the hand motions to the Monkey Song and when the part comes to "snap that monkey" you participate with such vigor! and even mutter out "snap that monkey out of the tree!" It's not clear but anyone can tell that is what your saying. You are so smart! Know we just need to work on walking, Daddy and I will hold your hand and let you walk along with us, but you typically start pooping out after several steps. You are getting better. Daddy and I have a bet going on right now, Daddy says you will be walking by Christmas, I say be Valentines. If things keep going the way they are now - I think I'm going to win!


Today was also your first ward Christmas party. Daddy and I (really it's just me) serve on the activities committee, and you will soon find out that when your a part of the activities committee it's the Christmas party that is the most important function of the year and the one with the most pressure attached. Luckily we are not the chair people of the committee just mere servants, which we are really good at! I'm thinking the reason that they put us on the activities committee is because we NEVER go to ward activities. I don't know why, but we just have always felt out of place in the past (no kids) and it seems like all the activities are always kid centered. So I guess now that you are here were really don't have any excuse and we have been much better since you joined the family. The event was "A night in Bethlehem" it was a lot of work, but it looked like everyone enjoyed it. Here are some pictures to show you what it was like. Everyone was suppose to dress up - we were all out of Bethlehem clothing at our house, so we just did the best we could with what we had. Grammie came down to bring some items that we used for the event, and I was so glad that she was here to help. She took care of you before, during and after the event, which freed up your daddy's and my hands to help. Love you Max!

Your First Ward Christmas Party
A Night in Bethlehem

The Treasury


Wine Market


Entire Market Place


Yummy Grapes!


Jaime (your babysitter) with Emma (your best little buddy) Jade and Ray

Sunday, December 13, 2009

It's Christmas Already!

Sunday, December 13, 2009
Dear Max,
It's Christmas already! Well, we've celebrated already. Every other year we get to celebrate Christmas with Uncle Geary, Auntie Jali, Daniel and Natalie. On the other years they get to celebrate with Daniel and Natalie's other Grandma and Grampa and we get to celebrate twice! So that is what we did this year. We met up at Grammie and Grampie's house the weekend and Friday night we stayed up late getting ready for "Christmas morning." Since this is what we refer to as an "off year" we didn't all get matching p.j.'s on "Christmas eve" but the grandkids did. So the kids all wore their matching p.j.'s to bed and when we woke up the next morning we had a big breakfast before going down stairs to see what we each got for Christmas It was funny cause we didn't want you to open everything early so Daniel and Natalie had a lot more things to open. At one point, you started to see this and had a slight breakdown. Do you think I'm crazy that I think this is funny? After opening gifts, we decided to go over to the Nativity Festival. Which Grammie started 10 years ago for the first time. It has become a tradition in St. George and has grown quite a bit, at the peak of Grammie's years of doing the festival they had over 7,000 people coming. It was fun to go to the festival as it takes place in the church house that I went to growing up, so many of the ward members from my childhood were there. It was so fun for them to see and meet you. The festival was very spiritual and a great thing to be able to do on "Christmas Day" after the festival we had to run to the grocery store to pick up a few things we forgot for our "Christmas Dinner" which was so convenient that the store was open for us on "Christmas Day" we went back to Grammie and Grampies and had a fantastic meal of crab legs, steak and clam chowder. I'm so glad that we have the opportunity to spend time with our family. We have such a fun time together and are creating many memories that I hope you will remember forever. Merry Christmas Max! Your a lucky boy to get Christmas twice!

Attempting to get a picture of you and Daniel in your matching P.J.'s

Take one...eye's closed


Take two...You arching your back


Take three... Daniel trying to help hold you down


Take four...Mommy gets involved!



Daniel with his new toy, a twist n' ride
What every Auntie wants to here
"Thanks Aunt Nelly, this is the best gift I ever received!"
Melts the heart!



He couldn't even wait to get it out of the box to ride!


And like any other "Christmas Morning" we were out riding our new toy's in our P.J.'s
What must the neighbors think?


Daniel and Natalie hanging with Uncle Tony...Don't look too close your daddy was teaching them to chew oreo's with open mouths!


The perfect end to a big Christmas Day!